Tuesday, December 15, 2009

really?


Saturday, November 14, 2009

what is the secret to success?

Sounds about right to me...
(I love you babe!)


Posted by Jud Wilhite (Deadly Viper Blog):

We live in a culture obsessed with success.

A CEO of a Fortune 500 company pulled into a service station to get gas. He went inside to pay and when he came out he noticed his wife engaged in a deep discussion with the service attendant. It turned out that she knew him. It fact back in high school before she met her eventual husband, she used to date him. The CEO got in the car and drove off and said, “I bet I know what you were thinking back there. I bet you were thinking you’re glad you married a Fortune 500 CEO and not a service attendant.” “No,” she said, “I was thinking if I’d married him, He’d be a fortune 500 CEO and you’d be a service attendant.” There are lots of opinions on how to be successful.

I don’t know about you … but I don’t know where I’d be without my wife.

Friday, October 23, 2009

what every marriage should look like after fifty years...

The following is a short video about a couple discussing their marriage after fifty years.
It is what every marriage should look like. It is real, authentic and looks like fun!



I am 14 years into my marriage and I can honestly say that we are well on our way. Terri, you are beautiful, amazing and I love you!!!

Thursday, October 1, 2009

take a deep breath

Mark Batterson posted the following in his blog this week...

Take a deep breath. Now let it out.

When we take a deep breath and let it out it has a physiological effect. It relaxes us. It relieves tension. It recalibrates us.

That is what happens when I think about the sovereignty of God. Reminding myself that God is sovereign is like a deep spiritual breath. God is in control. God is ordering my footsteps. God is setting me up for good deeds. God has a plan and purpose for my life. That not only gives me a sense of destiny about my life. It takes all the pressure off of me. It helps me relax spiritually.

I think that is one dimension of the "rest" described in Hebrews 4.

Tuesday, September 1, 2009

when food goes bad...

If you know me at all you know that I have a weird relationship with food. I don't enjoy large buffets or potlucks. Especially an outdoor buffet in the middle of summer. Dirty fingers, hovering, flies (wow, can't believe I don't enjoy that). Never been a big fan of veggies, meat has to be cooked a certain way and if you have to smell something straight out of the fridge before you serve it, count me out.

After dinner tonight I needed something else to eat. I rummaged through the fridge and found some yogurt cups. Peach (yum!). I opened it, took a big spoonful, and swallowed. Now I can probably count on two fingers the number of times I have let something spoiled cross my lips, let alone find my stomach. Well, tonight one got passed me. We had an old yogurt cup buried among the new cups. I can still taste it and I'm not sure I feel well (OK, so I am a little dramatic, but seriously, I feel weird). Oh well, I guess I am glad (kind of) I found the bad cup and not one of the kids.

I might never eat peach yogurt again. That may seem extreme, but that is the life I live with food. I will do my best to overcome (I really like peach yogurt).

Monday, May 25, 2009

a memorial day tribute

Today is Memorial Day and most of us probably have the day off.
I hope we will take a moment to remember why...

In the past two-hundred thirty-four years…
Over one million brave men and women have given their lives to protect what we hold most precious…

From the battle of Lexington and Concord,
To the bloodshed at Antietam,

From the trenches of World War One,
To the bombing at Pearl Harbor,

From Korea and Vietnam,
To the deserts of Kuwait, Afghanistan and Iraq;

Today we remember…

We honor…

And we thank the men and women who have fought to establish and preserve of freedom.

This video is for you. Thank you!

Friday, May 15, 2009

family night (last week) - dress up night

Well, we finally got back on track last week for Family Night...
Last week was Dress Up Night. We all dressed up (you know, ties and dresses). Terri made a nice dinner that included cloth napkins and candles. The strawberry cake was amazing! I wore a suit. However, I was given a hard way to go for not wearing socks (or shoes). Hannah had a great time as did Joel. Although it was a little harder to convince him to dress up. The unbuttoned shirt and clip on tie says it all. We couldn't help but laugh.

Tuesday, May 5, 2009

a family field trip...

I guess I should have posted our field trip to The Wilds earlier this spring.
Well, here ya go...

The Wilds is one of the largest and most innovative wildlife conservation centers in the world.

It was a little chilly, but the day was a lot of fun. We hiked, we learned, we painted a frog house (pardon me, we painted a toad abode).

We also boarded a guided Safari Transport to view rare and endangered animals living in natural, open-range habitats. It was an experience. I have included some pictures (yes, that bison has its tongue up its nose). Can you do that?

Monday, April 27, 2009

just checking in...

Just watching 24 and updating my blog. Jack in the man!

Anyway...
It has been more than a month since my last post. Lots going on, but even so, I have had more than enough time to post. Not sure why I haven't.

Many of you have emailed and/or asked about family nights...
No worries, we'll be back. It has been a little crazy over the last several weeks. We are hoping to resume Family Night this week.

Other than that I also hope to resume regular posts.

Saturday, March 14, 2009

family night - rock band night


This past week we grabbed some guitars, a set of drum sticks, and a microphone and rocked it out. After dinner and a short devotion in Ephesians (4:32) we plugged in a lava lamp (OK, I plugged in a lava lamp), turned the lights down and the stereo up as we continued our rock band world tour.






We are taking the week off next week , but we will return the week after next with Dress Up Night.

Has anyone started their family night? We only have three or four ideas left in the box. I either need to borrow some of your ideas or brainstorm some new ones.

Thursday, March 5, 2009

family night - rootbeer float night

This past Tuesday evening was Root Beer Float Night. How can you go wrong with a good root beer float? Well, you can't. We looked up Ephesians 6:1-2 during dinner and then enjoyed the floats for desert.

Next week...
Rock Band World Tour Night

Friday, February 27, 2009

family night - tour de fast food night

This past Tuesday evening was our latest installment of family night. The theme...Tour de Fast Food Night. I really enjoyed this one. We picked the three places we wanted to hit. From there we each determined one item that we wanted from each place. We hit the drive thru's and took pictures along the way. We brought everything home on picked a good movie for the night.

After four or five weeks I can honestly say that we have really enjoyed our Tuesday nights. We have actually had to say no to other things that have popped up in order to protect our Tuesday evenings. We understand that we may need to change the night every once in a while, but overall we really want to keep that night a priority.

Next week is Root Beer Float Night! Nice!!

Wednesday, February 18, 2009

family night - crazy hat night

Well, last night was family night. As you can see from the picture, last night was crazy hat night. The idea was to find and/or fashion a crazy hat and then wear it for the evening. Hannah's hat was made from scratch while Terri and Joel pulled from various other resources to pull off their crazy hat. OK, so my hat lacked what some might call...creativity. However, it was good enough to qualify for last nights festivities. Our Bible verse last night came out of Exodus 20:12.




Hopefully you have begun your family night journey. We have enjoyed ours.
Let me know if you have started and what you are doing.

OK, next weeks theme is one that I have been waiting for...
Tour de Fast Food Night (I'll explain next week).

Wednesday, February 11, 2009

family night - backwards night

Last night we spent the evening doing things backwards. (Sorry, no picture this week). This was much harder than I had anticipated. Upon walking in the door from the office I went upstairs and changed clothes. Mind you, I put the clothes on backwards. Terri and the kids also put everything on backwards. From there we spent the evening walking around backwards. This took some real brain power. The best part of the evening...We started with desert first at dinner (OK, then I had desert again at the end, but that's beside the point). Our verse for the week was Proverbs 15:20.

After three weeks of calling Tuesdays family night I wish we would have started this earlier. I would highly recommend starting a family night of your own. Pick a night and make it your own. I am posting our experiences so you can use some of our goofy ideas. If you happen to start doing your own version of family night and have new ideas please pass them along. I will eventually run out of ideas.

Next weeks theme...Crazy Hat Night
(I'll try and remember to take a picture)

Wednesday, February 4, 2009

family night - menu experiment night

Last night we continued our family night series. It was another successful and fun evening. Last nights theme...The Menu Experiment. Creativity was unleashed in the kitchen. We all put on aprons and prepared dinner. We knew we would eat a little later than usual so Terri bought a new DVD to watch while we prepared and waited. The menu consisted of a Crunchy Romain Tossed Salad (I made that and it was excellent). A loaf of Wholesome Oatmeal Bread went nicely with our main course...Herbed Chicken on Rice (different, but not too bad). We capped it off with a Chocolate Pudding Pizza (can't wait to eat the leftovers on that one)! We discussed our verse for the week (John 15:5) while enjoying desert. And yes, we also took a picture.

OK, to close out the evening we drew next weeks theme...
Backwards Night. Stay tuned...
I'll explain everything when I post next week.

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

family night - mix match night

Last night we began the first in what we hope to be a long series of family nights. Tuesday night is our night. We came up with a list of themes and put them in a box. Some of the themes came from the outside sources while others we developed. Each Tuesday during family night we choose a theme for the following week. It gives us something to look forward to and it allows us to prepare if necessary. Last night was Mix Match Night. Everyone put on the most obnoxious wardrobe they could find and wore it for the evening. Most of us are creatures of habit and so we also switched places at dinner from our normal seating arrangement. To top it off we threw in a couple of competitive rounds of UNO Spin.

Each week we will select a verse to read and discuss at dinner. The verse is on the theme card each week. Last nights verse was Proverbs 6:20. It was a really fun evening.

Last night we drew the theme for next week...
Experiment in the Kitchen Night. We pulled out the cookbooks and selected the menu for next weeks dinner (stuff we've never eaten before). Should be interesting.

I'll keep you posted.